There is a certain basic milieu that must exist for you to reach the highest blissful states of permanent sexual ecstasy. This is not to say that great degrees of prolonged sexual ecstasy cannot be attained when the milieu is not perfect. This only means that to reach the highest degree, this fundamental milieu must be in place.
ANOINT TO MAKE PLEASANT AND EASY suggests that an almost religious sanctity should be set when applying the ancient wisdom of sexual delights and ecstasy. Yes, the same joy, delights and ecstasy that can be found in religious experience is experienced in sexual ecstasy. It is not happenstance, nor can it be disregarded, that in order to "make pleasant and easy," the ancients taught of anointment.
FOR MARRIED COUPLES is not just some moral statement, but one of the conditions of the highest milieu. The marriage of couples can establish an environment of trust, devotion, security, love, communication and sexual freedom which may not exist in other settings. This milieu sets the stage for true joy.
TRUST in your relationship is necessary, for without trust a complete peace of mind and surrender to one another is difficult to obtain.
DEVOTION to your partner allows you to lose yourself in the joy of your partner; and the paradox is, you will find yourself in the joy.
SECURITY maintains a lasting bond of confidence for both of you. This acts as a foundation upon which to build to your highest degree of joy.
LOVE is the basis for all real joy.
TIME to experience your sexual joy must include the following criteria. Neither
partner should be tired. Both partners must be fresh and agreeable to the experience. A minimum of time must be set aside to allow total satisfaction for both partners. In the beginning, this time should be at least two hours in length, then shortened or lengthened as you discover the wisdom of permanent sexual ecstasy.
