There is one thing that all women have in common: they are all different. In fact, the same woman will be different depending on time of day, week, month, or year. However, there are some large-scale trends that you can count on. In his blog How to Drive Your Woman Wild in Bed, Graham Masterton provides the results of his informal survey of 500 American women answering the question, “What do you expect out of a man when he takes you to bed?” Memorize this. You’ll thank me for it:
1) Kissing: More important than anything. Kiss her everywhere. Kiss her as if she really, really matters. Women cannot get enough of this.
2) Talking: Be “flattering, romantic, arousing and encouraging.” As always, use the feedback principle.
3) Caressing.
4) Playing: “Tender, passionate loveplay and plenty of it”. Foreplay IS sex – prolong it, enjoy it. Ideally, do it until she’s so worked up that she starts begging.
5) Climax:No explanation necessary.Note that it is not in the top 4.
6) Oral sex
7) Good solid fucking: As one of the particularly reserved characters from the TV show Sex and the City said, complaining that her husband was ignoring her sexually, “Sometimes don’t you just wanted to be pounded hard?” I leave it to you to figure out what that means.
8) Body language: at the very least, know the difference between withdrawal and advance.
9) Afterplay: kiss, touch, talk, caress, kiss, play, kiss, hug, hold. Do NOT pass out.
10) ‘Morning glory’: the surveyed called sex in the morning both ‘romantic’ and ‘reassuring’.
